Just when I started liking people...

...I read this pair of horrid stories in WaPo this morning:

VA Toddler Dies After Father Leaves Him in SUV. Here’s the low-down: a guy leaves his infant son in his SUV all day long while he’s at work. 90 degrees inside the car. Claims he was supposed to take the tot to daycare, but forgot. All day. Until one of his co-workers asks him – is there something in your car? Indeed. But this story gets richer: this guy had just adopted the boy from Russia a few months prior. Fabulous! So he rescues the kid from a grim life in Russia only to torture the pup to death by neglect before he reaches two years old.

I’m still trying to understand how one can actually forget a whole human being. Guess I’m naïve that way. Plus, if you went to all that trouble to complete an international adoption, would you really want to dump the kid on a stranger daily rather than taking some parental leave or getting a relative (spouse, partner, parent) to ease the child into the family? Not to mention being generally more attentive and remembering you have a child? Hell no, this is America! Buy or birth the toy and put it on a shelf.

In Baby’s Death, a History of Unrest at Home. WaPo kind of soft-peddles this one – “a young couple struggled to rear four [emphasis mine] small children.” The low-down: this unmarried Hispanic woman lives with her children (3-, 2-, 1 year-olds and the 6-month-old) and the sperm donor. She leaves the 6-month-old in his playpen to take a nap (inside) while taking the other three outside to play. The baby dies mysteriously. There’s a history of “turmoil” (possible abuse by the XY). There was a social worker assigned to this “troubled” family…one who never paid a visit to check things out. The breeder seemed overwhelmed to friends and family. Hmmm. I wonder what happened? The ME hasn’t reported yet on the CoD.

I just find it amazing that this woman was essentially continuously pregnant for four years. At some point, don’t you think that she would say, “enough, I’m going on the pill?” Or, maybe "we should get married so these bastards have a name?" So much for Latino family values. She’s a stay-at-home-mom and the sperm donor pays the bills…maybe not willingly. Just around for the trim, really. Or maybe he forbade her to use contraception. I truly cannot fathom the macho mind. Or maybe they’re both too stupid to be proactive. Don’t know. The remaining tykes don’t have a prayer, though, that’s for sure.